Sex with an older woman is a fantasy that most men have had and continue to dream of. It is possible that she had a soft spot for a mature teacher when she was in school and was completely falling for her high school lovers. I’m pretty sure it wasn’t just me!
I grew up in the 80’s and the teachers who taught me were very sexy and attractive, to me anyway. I’m sure they knew the effect they were having on a hundred young teenagers under their care for 6 hours a day.
Be open minded and invite the opportunity
Be open-minded, fearless, and always accept opportunities and challenges in your life in general, but especially in sex and relationships. Life will throw so many fabulous opportunities at you that if you’re inhibited, fearful, or prejudiced, you’ll turn them down because of your own personal hang-ups. One day soon, not too far away, you will wake up and regret having failed sixteen times.
When you have a clear head, you will discover that opportunities abound everywhere, but especially with women and sex. Welcome approaches from women of all cultures, colors and classes. You should approach women of all sizes, body shapes, and social standing. Don’t be rude to any lady no matter what. Period! Remember, the best women do NOT look like Angelina Jolie.
Sex with an older woman is the stuff of dreams
Sex with an older woman is the stuff of fantasy for most young men who sadly never get to experience the joys and total satisfaction that an experienced, mature and sexually confident woman can bring. A younger woman still does not have the authority and calm confidence that an older woman does.
A mature woman will ‘know’ what to do. She will guide you to become a better lover. She will educate you to become a better sexual partner. She will show you what she likes and you will learn the things that turn you on. It is a journey of discovery and revelations.
Most mature women will be eager to try new sexy things and more open to sexual experimentation, play or role play. She will encourage him to be bold and push the barriers for both of you to experience new heights of emotions. As a trainee, novice sexual partner, he will have the opportunity to try things with an older woman that he might be embarrassed or reluctant to do with a girlfriend his own age. I was able to do anal and threesomes with the mature women I was lucky enough to be with. They loved it and encouraged me to be more daring and inventive. I’ll write about the Princess Leia and Darth Vader costumes another time. Wink, wink!
She is not after your life
Sex with an older woman is a sure way to boost your ego, self-confidence, and recharge your self-esteem. What a badge of honor! Your newfound confidence will permeate every aspect of your life. You will be more confident with people, especially girls. You will see improvements in your business affairs and your social life will be enhanced.
Most mature women who have taken a younger lover are not looking for your ‘life’. She is not looking for a husband, or settling down with you and starting a family; she is not looking for a long-term commitment from you. She doesn’t need you to take care of her. She just wants you to satisfy her sexually… and come back for more. And then come back again.
Older women turn to younger men for sexual satisfaction for a variety of reasons, but “love” is rarely high. She may be divorced or have an absent husband or no husband at all. She may be a free spirit looking for uncomplicated sex or she may just be your neighbor a few doors down who just wants a nice visit! Never judge and never over analyze, jump in and seize the opportunity.
She knows that the ‘older woman, younger man’ relationship won’t last forever and will make the most of the time they have together. You should do the same too. Enjoy the fabulous feeling of satisfying a mature woman you are with. Take pride in the fact that she wants to have sex with you. Be proud that you have given him many days of sexual pleasure and be grateful for the education you have received.
A great start to life
As a young man, starting out in life, this experience of sex with an older woman will prove invaluable in later life. It helped me form strong and healthy relationships with women of all ages and from all over the world. I firmly believe that my experiences allowed me to more fully appreciate women and become a better partner.